UK Blackburn, Accrington, Manchester, Lancs TV Mistress Xena - Novices
Do not worry about being a 'novice' - it is perfectly natural to be nervous about any meeting. The one thing you need to remember is that the 'normal' 'vanilla' world remains outside, and our meetings are to bring to life your hidden desires - with discretion,cleanliness & safety a priority. I am aware that as a novice you are looking for a Mistress who will take you into the world of domination. A Mistress who can help you gradually stretch your limits, but recognising that some limits need to be agreed & respected; e.g. in particular for the married sub - having to be careful about not leaving any lasting tell-tale signs of punishment or modification (shaving etc.).To help you explore things which perhaps you wouldn’t initially consider.
Your first visit is so important, as it sets out the agenda for the future; whether with Mistress or not! I therefore wish to give you a ‘taster’ of what you can expect, but have to be careful it is within limits, so that you find the experience a rewarding one.
As stated in My contact page, prior to any session, in particular the first, I will clarify with yourself by email what areas are to be covered, establishing what you want to explore, & what you don’t want to explore.
In your emails to Me please be honest & open – think of Me as your confidential doctor. Believe me, we will both enjoy ourselves far more if you are open in discussing your needs and honest in your responses. Try not to feel uncomfortable to tell me of your desires.
As I have stated elsewhere, I am very permissive and understanding of individual needs, and as such you may feel free to discuss all manner of subjects. Be assured that anything you tell me about yourself and your desires will always be treated with the utmost confidentiality.
You will also be given a safe word or signal to use during the session if for whatever reason you feel the need to call a halt to an activity. In all other aspects I am in control of the session, your safe word however will always be respected.
And lastly, it is okay to be anxious. Even the experienced are tense. You don't have to be worried about what you have to do, how well you are going to perform, or any of the other things you might think you have to worry about.
Here is where I am in control, and the only thing you have to do is to submit and obey. You should find an incredible euphoria & exhilaration at the point you discover the joy you have in being dominated & accepting your status as a subslave. If not… then you will have still learnt something positive in that you will have discovered that you are not turned on by taking on the role as a submissive…. But hopefully this will not be the case, & you will be in bliss kneeling before your Mistress & accepting her spit.